( XX ) Being True

To me, true love isn't that one in 6 and something billion that is the 100% perfect match to you.
Its a state of love.

Statistically 6 billion people is no where enough for 1 perfect match to exist, there are so many qualities, features, personalities to go through, to choose from, to enjoy and love.
Instead, it's your job to remember that perfect only exist in a theoretical realm and in this world we call practical reality there will always be errors. Quite simply thou, its because of these errors that such simply thing can be so magnificent and beautiful.

Now, the body; True Love To Me.

You cannot find a true love, because true love exist within ourselves. Instead of looking for true love out there why not have a look inside ourselves and realize that this force that everyone looks for and wants is anything we can make or want it to be. True love isn't a person, its that way that you treat the one you are with. To overlook the flaws, to forgive and learn from the mistakes, to treasure what you have, and to simply adore.
In every relationship you have that beginning where everything in the world is perfect, you look into their eyes and you just want them forever. Then comes the first fight and now your world is shattered and you realize that maybe this isn't the utopia that your heart thought it was.
Now, here's the hard part, are you ready?

Getting over it,
learning that we live in reality and fights do happen, and after each its suppose to bring us closer together, make us stronger, and love even more. This last part, the love even more, this is where many go wrong, they are so consumed by the negatives that the positives are now a distant memory in the back of a storage shed. This is when you think, maybe this isn't true love? If you've thought this, then you are doing it WRONG! True was that feeling you had back in the beginning of the relationship, if you can remember that, and live that again through out the entire relationship, then you are experiencing true and I congratulate you!

BUT
True love is a sensation, its a state, an emotion, a mental place, a imaginary story, a fairytale that you can share with anyone.
In most relationships its quite simply that you take true love for granted and get too comfortable, you forget reality and expect it to be perfect everyday. You become oblivious to it, spending to much time thinking about him/her, instead of thinking about we/us. It becomes so far from your mind that you can't ever get it back again, and that's when a relationship loses its spark and withers, dies, and turns to bitter black ash.

Retrieval. A HOW TO GUIDE
The only known way of reviving true love is falling in love. When you fall in love, the only thing that can save you is its older brother true. True love will venture out of his deep dark abyss and extend a hand to help love back up, but then that's where you can bring life back into it. You are able to slowly warm up its icy heart and melt away the dirty water. You can grab its attention, make it smile, and laugh. Take it up and return it back into a functional part of you.


That warm fuzzy feeling you get, that's when true love giggles. When you just feel like smiling, that when true love smiles, when all that's on your mind is that one that you've fallen for, that true love shouting his/her name at the top of its voice!

Remember: Love is one of the most pure emotions that exist in this hectic life of our, what we perceive to be real love might differ, but you must remember that love still has a twin called lust, although similar, lust is purely in the mind where love is in the heart. ALL love is true.